b4nch4

It’s like when someone says, ‘How are you?’ Do you say, ‘Well, my head hurts and I’m lonely and depressed and I’m worried about everything and the world is collapsing and full of evil’? Or do you say, ‘I’m fine’?

—Sara Shepard, The Visibles. (via soulsscrawl)

(Source: wordsthat-speak, via gravity-gravity)

humansofnewyork:

"We’re eye doctors.""What’s something about the eye that most people don’t realize?""The eye doesn’t see. The brain sees. The eye just transmits. So what we see isn’t only determined by what comes through the eyes. What we see is affected by our memories, our feelings, and by what we’ve seen before."

humansofnewyork:

"We’re eye doctors."
"What’s something about the eye that most people don’t realize?"
"The eye doesn’t see. The brain sees. The eye just transmits. So what we see isn’t only determined by what comes through the eyes. What we see is affected by our memories, our feelings, and by what we’ve seen before."

Sometimes i really have hard time to come up with things that i’m grateful for (i’m keeping a gratitude journal) because it’s so easy to forget the little good things that i have in abundance. Thx for the reminder! So glad to have had a nice chat with my aunt today, didn’t realise that i miss her. She spoiled me as a child and practically help raising me. I should call her more often

Over the past few years i think i have curb my consumerism side pretty well. I don’t buy stuff on a whim anymore. i don’t buy stuff just because i’m having a bad day and need some retail therapy or simply because it looks pretty. Not even when it’s on Sale!
I admit, sometimes i still can not help my self. But i’m trying hard dammit!
When i do buy stuff though, i make sure it has better quality, last longer with tendency to classic style so i won’t easily get bored or go out of trends just after few months.
I think the minimalism lifestyle is very applicable not only towards consumerism but to other aspect of life also. I’m getting there

Over the past few years i think i have curb my consumerism side pretty well. I don’t buy stuff on a whim anymore. i don’t buy stuff just because i’m having a bad day and need some retail therapy or simply because it looks pretty. Not even when it’s on Sale!

I admit, sometimes i still can not help my self. But i’m trying hard dammit!

When i do buy stuff though, i make sure it has better quality, last longer with tendency to classic style so i won’t easily get bored or go out of trends just after few months.

I think the minimalism lifestyle is very applicable not only towards consumerism but to other aspect of life also. I’m getting there

(via richesforrags)

hyperventilate after sending a particular email. big decision, done. no turning back now. I can only wish it’s the right decision.

This is the first time me & J seriously consider of moving out from Jakarta. As much we we love the vibrant Jakarta, hours stuck in traffic everyday is not how we want to spend the rest of our life, thank you very much.

Of course, to completely move to another city is easier said than done. Life’s go on, bills need to be paid. So before we make any decision we’ll have to at least have ideas of what to do for living.  I don’t think people will queue up for my mad design skill in small town that’s for sure.

Dad told me that if i really really want to learn to swim, i just have to jump to the deep water and swim.

Anyway, we are checking out our options now, and we’ll see what happen next.